Never go to bed mad

Our Wedding. May 12, 2007

Happy Anniversary Adam Jacob Kish. My lover, my best friend, the father of my babies, my rock, and forever my husband! I may be a day late ( thanks to blogspots technical difficulties yesterday) but it means more with each passing day. Everyone who is married or has been married, will probably agree when I say that the first year is always the hardest. That's when all the skeletons come out of the closet that ya'll hoped you could hide forever. Thats when you learn that they squeeze the toothpaste tube from the middle and not the bottom! And thats when you learn that they are allergic to cleaning supplies. And it's no secret that Adam and I had our fair share of martial problems in our first year. But looking back, it made us who we are today. And here we are, 4 years later, happier then ever! We have one of the strongest marriages I know and I owe it all to that horrible first year! It forced us to tap into tools that we otherwise may have never found! We learned to always remember why we fell in love and decided to get married. And we learned NEVER to go to bed mad. EVER! It's a rule at our house. And every year on our anniversary, I remember how important that day was to me. How I said "I do" in front of my friends, family, and God and I meant it! Walking down that isle and seeing my man in uniform, is one of my happiest moments. And now I am proud to say that we have made it 4 years. And just like last year, this anniversary was spent with friends instead of my husband! He was with his mistress whom I call the Marine Corp. Sometimes I REALLY hate that B!T*H! But in reality, I'm ok with that. I was proud of my Marine on our wedding day and I am even more proud of him now. So anyways, my girlfriend Ty and her little man, and my two girls, went to the Olive Garden. It's a tradition that on ANY special occasion such as Anniversary or birthday, we eat at the Olive Garden. Real classy I know :) So I carried out that tradition and afterwards we went to Victoria Secrets and bought myself some perfume. I would be lying if I said it wasn't hard. But I don't need just one day a year to celebrate my marriage. I try to remember EVERYDAY how lucky I am to be married to my best friend. I love you baby.

Mark 10:6-9 "But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."